jee-q:

I’m mature enough to admit that I’m the reason for some failed friendships/relationships. I apologize 

golden-honey-dreams:

does anyone want to join me in a ring of cabins up in the swiss alps where we have a collective herd of sheep and plant flowers and lay on our backs with our dogs at our feet and have showings of nature documentaries out in the town square every tuesday

flirtesque:

if u need me I’ll be over here daydreaming about sex

audisex:

hello i would like to hold hands

hatefuhk:

when people ask where you see yourself in 10 years

gordamnramsey:

*owen wilson voice*

wow

You both lied

One, you lied when you said you were always going to be there for me and when you said you were not comparing me to your exes. You lied when you said you trusted me. You lied when you said you saw the woman in me. You lied by not taking care of me.

Two, you lied when you said you wanted more than that, when you said that you wanted a relationship with me and filled me with the life I was trying to find somewhere else. You were only looking to fill your manliness and not taking care of the hopes and dreams I had with you. You don’t care about anyone but yourself. I know now that I did get too involved and that you were a prick but I don’t regret what I did, because I know now I did it with my whole heart, always. But, you still lied. And laughed and didn’t care about anything. And now I miss him because of you. I missed what was most important because of you. And I always go back to your stupid smile and your stupid face and laugh, when I didn’t even spend that much time with you. I feel crazy, like I’m repeating what I did when I was little and being a little girl again. You lied. You lied to her, you lied to me, you lie to everyone, even to yourself.

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. I need to affirm and to validate myself as it’s hard to accept validation from others if, deep down inside, I don’t believe it’s true.

2. My time is valuable as anybody else’s so I need to prioritise what I need to do.

3. I can’t give to others, and help to build them up, if I’m not taking care of my own self first.

4. I need to remember that I’m worthy of love, of success, opportunities, and knowing happiness.

5. My opinions are as valuable as anybody else’s. It’s up to me to decide and to choose my own beliefs.

6. I don’t have to explain why I do what I do (unless you’re the police or have some authority!)

7. My past does not define me - I’m free to change and grow, to try on different “me”s, and to set inspiring goals.